Random Question of the Day

Would you rather be with someone who has all of the ideal qualities that you’re looking for in a person and is perfect in every way but you just don’t or can’t love OR be with someone who has all of the qualities that you would normally hate and is generally not a good person but you still deeply, truly love anyway, no matter what? Think about it. And why?

Single (and Bitter): What They Say vs. What They Think

Straight from your resident still-single-but-NOT-ready-to-mingle blogger girl, Sophie Kat! (Note: You can only relate to this if you’re single AND bitter…and maybe a bit desperate too.)

What they say: “Ugh. All these couples making-out. Gross.”

What they think: “I’m so jealous! I want that too.”

What they say: “I don’t need a man!”

What they think: “Love me please. Love me!”

What they say: “See? No relationship drama.”

What they think: “No make-up…’cuddle’ either.”

What they say: “Freedom!”

What they think: “…is so lonely.”

What they say: “Sure, I can tag along on your date.”

What they think: “I’m the thirdwheel. Again.”

What they say: “Yeah! I have the whole bed to myself!”

What they think: “B-but I need someone to hug when I sleep!”

What they say: “I can have as many book boyfriends and celebrity crushes as I want!”

What they think: “Wow. My boyfriends are either a poster on the wall or a fictional character. I’m so pathetic.”

What they say: “I don’t have to buy presents for Valentine’s Day!”

What they think: “No one’s gonna give me presents on Valentine’s Day.” *sobs*

What they say: “I don’t have to deal with someone constantly checking up on me.”

What they think: “No one cares for me!”

What they say: “I’m so happy to be single.”

What they think: *sighs*

What they say: “Being in a relationship is overrated anyway.”

What they think: “Who am I kidding, I need a boyfriend now!”

(Since Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, I decided to repost one of my favorite relationship-related posts. I hope you enjoyed it the second time. Or if you’re a first-time reader, did you enjoy it?)

[BOYSFALL] English Class

Even if I promise her that I’ll be the man she needs, I know I will never be good enough. I’m just a clueless boy, she is a woman. I’m just a high school kid and she is my teacher.

(Oh, the cringe! But I wrote this so I must share this. Some people just love tragic stories and forbidden romance. Even cheesy ones like this. More posts like this here, here, here, and here.)

[BOYSFALL] The Bad Guy

“Why are you doing this to me?”

You yelled in agony and frustration.

I wanted to wipe your tears

And kiss the pain away

But I didn’t.

I won’t.

Because I am no hero.

I am no lover.

To you, I am the villain.

The monster.

The bad guy.

(There’s more from where this came from. Just cheesy stuff like this. If you want to read more, links are here, here, and here. I’ll post some more later on. Cheers!)

Feelings Fade

Things you once loved. Things you thought were magical. They stirred your insides, awakened a burning fire you never knew you had. Things you said you would cherish forever. Why did the colors suddenly fade? Why did they turn into ashes? Dull and lifeless, now you’re conflicted. Now, you’re not sure if the magic truly lived there in the first place. No matter how hard you try to convince yourself, your heart for it is just gone. You want to look for a match. You want the fire lit again. But the fuel doesn’t last forever so you’re stuck in the dark, seeking comfort in it. Forever you’ll wonder what it takes to see the colors again.

(You can interpret this in multiple ways but mostly for me, this applies to my passions. One is dancing. I used to dance. Joined a lot of competitions during high school, was a choreographer for most of our routines too. Even though I’m such an awkward potato, I used to be confident when it comes to dancing. Came college, I got stuck in studying. I didn’t realize that I was killing my passion for dancing because I was so focused on other things. I feel bad about it. I don’t want that passion in me to be gone forever.)

Ice and Fire

Ice is ice and Fire is fire.

Nature is the law, the law of nature.

What cannot be should not be.

One might melt, the other extinguished.

(A bit cryptic but, yeah, it’s true. This represents the situation I am in right now. I don’t want to admit it but I know it’s the truth. Still, I don’t want to talk about it or it’ll become my reality. So I left you with this poem instead. It has everything yet nothing I want to say.)